Love
Love has more than one meaning
There is the story of the father and son who were
returning from Sunday bible class in which they studied the topic of the
Ten Commandments. The boy asked his father, “Daddy, what does it mean
when it says, ‘Thou shalt not commit agriculture’?” The
father did not hesitate to answer, “Son, that just means you are
not supposed to plow the other man’s field.”
The answer satisfied both father and son.[1]
Words of a language have many meanings, and
sometimes a speaker conveys the meaning by implication. Regrettably,
indirect references to meaning can lead to misunderstanding, but people
use indirect references anyway.
Writers, and for that matter speakers, have a
tendency to avoid harsh or suggestive words and instead to employ other
words that convey a meaning similar enough to that intended, but with
milder or more pleasant meanings. These milder and pleasanter words are
called euphemisms. Euphemisms are common in the Bible. Jesus used such a
euphemism when he said the daughter of Jairus was “asleep.” He spoke
similarly of Lazarus. Edersheim says that the rabbis—the Jewish teachers
of that time—frequently used the term “to sleep” instead of “to die.”
The word “demakh” meant “to
sleep” in the sense of an overpowering and oppressive sleep.[2]
[3]
[4]
John, in his gospel, told of what Jesus said when
he spoke of Lazarus,
John 11:11 … after that He said to them, “Our
friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I go, so that I may awaken him out
of sleep.” 12 The disciples then said to Him, “Lord, if he has fallen
asleep, he will recover.” 13 Now Jesus had spoken of his death, but they
thought that He was speaking of literal sleep. 14 So Jesus then said to
them plainly, “Lazarus is dead,
Modern speakers and writers are no different in the
use of euphemisms. Fiction writers and screen writers often use the word
“love” instead of “sex.” In this way they obscure the meaning of the
word love and cause it to be confused with something else.
The writers of the New Testament in most cases used
the word agape (ah-gahʹpay),
for ‘love.’ Of the three words for love in the Hellenistic world,
agape was the least common.
The other two words were eros,
which meant sexual love, and
philos, which meant friendship. Even the meanings of these three
words could vary according to the context in which they appeared.[5]
Another word, astorgos,
refers to a lack of love or affection for close associates, or family.
It means, to be —‘without normal human affection, without love for
others.’[6]
Paul used a variation on astorgos
in his Roman letter which is
philo-storgos.[7]
Thayer says that philo-storgos
means the mutual love of
parents and children; also of husbands and wives. It is loving
affection, or to be prone to love, loving tenderly; used chiefly of the
reciprocal tenderness of parents and children.[8]
The New Testament never uses the word
ἐρως [erōs]
a word that means lust.[9]
Love, sometimes called Christian love or charity,
is something that can be commanded. Jesus said to His disciples,
John 15:12 “This is My commandment, that you love
one another, just as I have loved you.[10]
This type of love is not primarily an emotion,
although love in this sense involves a genuine affection. It is the idea
found in the story of the rancher whose barn burned down. The rancher
could only watch as flames consumed his barn and all the equipment
inside. Later, as he sat in his house lamenting his loss, he heard a
knock on the door. When he opened the door he met his neighbor’s son who
said, “My father is sorry he could not come himself at this time, but he
sends his love. It’s out in the wagon. Won’t you come and help me unload
it.”
Paul wrote,
Romans 13:10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor;
therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Love is active good will as seen in the neighbor of
the rancher who lost his barn. Thayer defines it as, “…to be full of
good-will and exhibit the same.”[11]
Vine says of Christian love, “Love can be known only from the actions it
prompts. God’s love is seen in the gift of His Son, 1 John 4:9, 10.[12]
Love in the Bible is also expressed in terms of
affection. This type of love is not commanded.[13]
Sometimes children are the best to show this type of love. Harry Pickup,
a preacher widely known for his talent, friendliness and affable
personality, worked at
This could have been the one time that Harry Pickup
had a loss for words. We will never know. But the incident shows us what
love as phileo ought to be.
It is like the spontaneous affection that is shown by a little child. It
should be as Peter says,
1 Peter 1:22 Since you have in obedience to the
truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently
love one another from the heart,
It should be a “sincere love,” a sincere affection
(philadelphia), and fervent
love (agape) from the heart.
Love of God
An individual makes his Christian love (agape)
evident by seeking the good for a neighbor or a friend. Love is also,
and in truth, primarily, seeking the greater good for God. Matthew wrote
in his gospel,
Matthew 22:35 One of them, a lawyer, asked Him a
question, testing Him,
36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?”
37 And He said to him, “ ‘YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD
YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR
MIND.’ 38 “This is the great and foremost commandment. 39 “The second is
like it, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’ 40 “On these two
commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”
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The Lord spoke of
agape in this conversation.
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The love of God is the foremost
commandment. The Ten Commandments were expressions of love.
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The love of God is to be total; i.e., the
whole being of man is involved, including the heart which is the
causative source of a person’s psychological life in its various
aspects, but with special emphasis upon thoughts. This love involves the
heart, or the inner self.
You must love God with all your being—this includes all you
desire and think; together with your faculties of understanding,
reasoning and thinking.
[14]
The New Bible Dictionary says of the love of God,
Love for God (is to be done) with the whole
personality (Dt. 6:5) (and is) God’s demand; though this is not to be
understood as meaning merely a punctilious observance of an impersonal
divine law but rather as summoning to a relationship of personal
devotion created and sustained by the work of God in the human heart
(Dt. 30:6).
It consists in the simple joyful experience of
communion with God (Je. 2:2; Pss. 18:1; 116:1), worked out in daily
obedience to his commandments (Dt. 10:12, it is ‘to love him, to serve
the Lord your God’; Jos. 22:5, it is ‘to love the Lord your God and to
walk in all his ways’). This obedience is more fundamental to the nature
of love for God than any feeling. God alone will be the judge of its
sincerity (Dt. 13:3).[15]
[16]
The testing of Abraham is the classic example where
the crucible of choice sets a man’s love for God against another object
that is dear to the man. In this case Abraham’s choice is between his
son, Isaac, and God.
God had fulfilled a promise to Abraham and had
given him a son in his old age.[17]
And Abraham loved his son. But Abraham also loved God. And then a day
came when God tested Abraham.
Genesis tells what God said,
Genesis 22:2 …“Take now your son, your only son,
whom you love, Isaac, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there
as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I will tell you.”
Abraham was a devout believer in God, but he also
loved his son, Isaac. The command placed Abraham upon the merciless
horns of a dilemma. He must either obey God and slay his only son, or he
must ignore the command of God and preserve Isaac, alive. Whom did he
love more, Isaac or God? If he offered up Isaac he would destroy his
only offspring and eliminate all his posterity. If he did not offer up
Isaac then he would bring down the wrath of God upon himself. What could
he do? Whom did he love more?
Genesis says that Abraham rose early in the
morning, split wood for the offering, and went to the place of which God
had told him.
Genesis 22:5 Abraham said to his young men, “Stay
here with the donkey, and I and the lad will go over there; and we will
worship and return to you.” 6 Abraham took the wood of the burnt
offering and laid it on Isaac, his son, and he took in his hand the fire
and the knife. So the two of them walked on together. 7 Isaac spoke to
Abraham his father and said, “My father!” And he said, “Here I am, my
son.” And he said, “Behold, the fire and the wood, but where is the lamb
for the burnt offering?” 8 Abraham said, “God will provide for Himself
the lamb for the burnt offering, my son.” So the two of them walked on
together.
The dilemma brought Abraham’s love of God, and,
therefore, his faith, into the crucible of choice. “Where is the lamb,
my father?” Isaac had asked. Surely, the boy’s words broke Abraham’s
heart, but Abraham answered in faith. God will provide the sacrifice.
Then they came to the place for the sacrifice, and
Abraham built an altar. He put the wood on the altar and then placed
Isaac on the wood. Abraham had made his choice. He would obey God. So he
stretched out his hand, took a knife and prepared to slay his son.
Genesis 22:11 But the angel of the LORD called to
him from heaven and said, “Abraham, Abraham!” And he said, “Here I am.”
12 He said, “Do not stretch out your hand against the lad, and do
nothing to him; for now I know that you fear God, since you have not
withheld your son, your only son, from Me.”
So, Abraham then found a ram caught in a thicket
and offered it up in the place of Isaac. In this way Abraham
demonstrated his love for God above all else.
Jesus said,
John 14:15 “If you love Me, you will keep My
commandments.
John 15:10 “If you keep My commandments, you will
abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide
in His love.
Luke 16:13 “No servant can serve two masters; for
either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be
devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.”
King David fell into temptation when he valued the
illicit love of Bathsheba, wife of Uriah the Hittite, over obedience to
the commands of God. His desire for Bathsheba led him to commit
adultery, then to attempt to cover his sin with deception, and finally
to conspire in the murder of Uriah the Hittite. In doing this David did
not abide in the love of God. David suffered for his sin, but to his
credit, he repented.
Jesus healed a man at Bethesda of his infirmity on
the Sabbath and His Jewish opponents accused Him of breaking the
Sabbath. Among the things that Jesus said to them was this,
John 5:39 “You search the Scriptures because you
think that in them you have eternal life; it is these that testify about
Me; 40 and you are unwilling to come to Me so that you may have life. 41
“I do not receive glory from men; 42 but I know you, that you do not
have the love of God in yourselves. 43 “I have come in My Father’s name,
and you do not receive Me; if another comes in his own name, you will
receive him. 44 “How can you believe, when you receive glory from one
another and you do not seek the glory that is from the one and only God?
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These men did not have the love of God in
themselves.
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These opponents of Jesus sought approval
from others like themselves. They should have sought the approval of God
above all else.
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A person who seeks God’s approval obeys
the commands of God.
1 John 2:3 By this we know that we have come to
know Him, if we keep His commandments. 4 The one who says, “I have come
to know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the
truth is not in him; 5 but whoever keeps His word, in him the love of
God has truly been perfected. By this we know that we are in Him: 6 the
one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner
as He walked.
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The person who knows God keeps His
commandments.
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The one who does not keep God’s
commandments, but says he knows God, is a liar.
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Love of God is seen in the one who keeps
God’s commandments.[18]
In the Old Testament book of 1st Samuel
the Bible says that the prophet of God, Samuel, told King Saul,
1 Samuel 15:2 “Thus says the LORD of hosts, ‘I
will punish Amalek for what he did to Israel, how he set himself against
him on the way while he was coming up from Egypt. 3 ‘Now go and strike
Amalek and utterly destroy all that he has, and do not spare him; but
put to death both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel
and donkey.’ ”
Samuel had anointed Saul as king of Israel. It was
a lofty office and laden with responsibility, but on this occasion Saul
did not listen carefully to what Samuel told him. God commanded him,
through Samuel, to repay the Amalekites in kind for what they had done
to Israel when they came up out of Egypt.
So it happened that Saul gathered his army and
struck the Amalekites, and his soldiers wrought great destruction among
these enemies of Israel, but he did not destroy them as God had
commanded. The bible says,
1 Samuel 15:9 But Saul and the people spared Agag
and the best of the sheep, the oxen, the fatlings, the lambs, and all
that was good, and were not willing to destroy them utterly; but
everything despised and worthless, that they utterly destroyed.
Despite the clarity of the command, Saul failed to
carry it out. Moreover, he convinced himself that he had done what God
wanted, and this to the extent that he set up a monument to himself at
Carmel. When the prophet came to him he told Samuel that he had carried
out the command of the Lord.
The “bleating of the sheep and
the lowing of the oxen” convinced Samuel otherwise. Saul then
attempted to shift the blame to the people, but Samuel would have none
of it. Samuel told him,
1 Samuel 15:22 …,
“Has the LORD as much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices
As in obeying the voice of the LORD?
Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice,
And to heed than the fat of rams.
23 “For rebellion is as the sin of divination,
And insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry.
For his disobedience Saul fell out of God’s favor,
and lost his office as king of Israel.
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We must conclude that Saul did not really
know God.
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King Saul did not have the love of God in
his heart; else, he would have kept God’s commandment.
There is a story told in Benjamin Franklin’s
autobiography of a clergyman who was ordered to read the proclamation
issued by Charles I, bidding the people to return to sports on Sundays.
To his congregation’s horror and amazement, he did read the royal edict
in church, which many clergy had refused to do. But he followed it with
the words, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy,” and added:
“Brethren, I have laid before you the commandment of your king and the
Commandment of your God. I leave it to you to judge which of the two
ought rather to be observed.”
[19]
Obedience above all else
Love of God involves obedience to God above all
else. Even the king—or the emperor—must subordinate himself to God.
Ordinary men are tempted to place ambition or desire, or even obedience
to men above God. Such should not be.
As the legend goes, The Forty Martyrs of Sebaste
were Roman soldiers in the Legio
XII Fulminata who had been converted to Christ.[20]
They were soldiers known as the “Emperor’s Wrestlers.” They were
stalwart men, picked from the best and the bravest of the land,
recruited from the great athletes of the Roman amphitheater. In the
amphitheater they upheld the arms of the emperor against all
challengers. Before each contest they stood before the emperor’s throne,
and their voices rose through the courts of Rome crying out: “We, the
wrestlers, wrestling for thee, O Emperor, to win for thee the victory
and from thee, the victor’s crown.”[21]
A day came when their Legion was on a campaign in
the high mountains of Armenia, in Asia Minor. It was winter and bitterly
cold. It was then that the Roman Emperor Licinius issued a decree to the
commanders of all his armies that on a given day the soldiers had to
march past a statue of the Emperor, do obeisance, pour out a libation of
wine, and drop incense on the fire. These were acts of worship to
Caesar, treating Caesar as a god.
At the appointed time the trumpets blew and the
Legion marched past the statue of the Emperor. All the soldiers bowed
their heads, poured out the wine, and offered the incense to the Emperor
as to a god—all, except the Forty. These Christians refused to pay
divine honors to a man. They believed such devotion was reserved for God
alone. Thus, they kept their confession of Christ.
Their commander, a centurion named Vespasian, who
thought highly of them, begged them to obey the decree. It is said that
they considered the offer, the sweetness of life, and their families at
home, but in the end they answered the centurion, “For Rome we will
fight on any field and under any sky. In the service of the Emperor, if
necessary, we will die. But we worship no one save our Master, Jesus
Christ.”
With sorrow the commander pronounced judgment upon
them. They were stripped of their armor, their helmets, breastplates,
shields, spears and swords, Then the commander ordered that their
garments be taken from them, and their sandals. Naked, they were driven
out in the sub-zero cold upon a frozen lake.
Night fell, and the soldiers of the legion sat
around the fires in their bivouacs. They could hear the voices of the
Forty as they sang, “Forty wrestlers, wrestling for thee O Christ, claim
for thee the victory, and from thee the crown.”
As the night passed their voices became weaker and
weaker as, one by one, they succumbed to the cold and died. At length,
only one survivor was left. This one failed in his resolve, and he
sought the warm baths near the lake which had been prepared for any
soldier who might abandon his confession. Shivering and trembling, he
presented himself before the tent of the commander and said to the
guard, “I will drop the incense, and pour out the wine.”
But the guard, who had been moved by the heroic
faith of the men who had been condemned to death, said, “Since you have
proved a coward, and have broken your fellowship with the Forty, I will
take your place.” With that he stripped off his armor and his clothing
then went out into the night to take his place upon the frozen lake. As
he stood among the thirty-nine who had fallen he sang, “Forty wrestlers,
wrestling for thee O Christ, claim for thee the victory, and from thee
the crown.”
At last, he too fell dead. When the morning sun
rose above the wintry Armenian mountains it looked down upon forty
martyrs who had kept their confession and had died for Christ.
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Love and loyalty are closely allied.
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Love and loyalty gain respect; cowardice
does not.
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Jesus said, “Therefore everyone who
confesses Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is
in heaven. 33 “But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him
before My Father who is in heaven.[22]
The Apostle John wrote,
1John 3:16 We know love by this, that He laid
down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the
brethren.
Love and wealth
Durant says that “Nearly everybody in Rome
worshiped money with mad pursuit, and all but the bankers denounced it.”
[23] They were much like the people
of modern America.
In the
The two highest groups among the
honestiores were known as
"orders," and were composed of first senators then knights. The members
of the lower of the two highest groups was the Equestrian Order. To
enter this class one had to possess a minimum of 400,000 sesterces,[25]
and have the specific nomination of the prince. At the summit of the
social scale was the Senatorial Order. A member of this order had to
possess 1,000,000 sesterces. Appointments to administrative office
depended upon the social class and the amount of money a person had.[26]
It was at about this time, when Antoninus Pius
became emperor of Rome, that the Roman government inaugurated a severe
persecution against the Christians. The emperor remained silent while
they subjected the followers of Christ to scourging, consigned them to
the flames, or sacrificed them to the wild beasts in the arena.[27]
Christ and His disciples taught people not to be
lovers of money. But that was not popular then and it is not
popular today.
As was the Roman regard of their Lord so was the
regard of Christians in the Roman world. Paul wrote,
1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is a root of
all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from
the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. 11 But flee from
these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness,
faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
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The pursuit of love begins with the
pursuit of God.
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The love of money is a root of all sorts
of evil.
Jesus said,
Matthew 10:37 “He who loves father or mother more
than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than
Me is not worthy of Me. 38 “And he who does not take his cross and
follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39 “He who has found his life will
lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake will find it.
Paul wrote,
Galatians 2:20 “I have been crucified with
Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the
life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God,
who loved me and gave Himself up for me.
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Love of Christ must be greater than love
of all else.
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Love is seen in self-sacrifice.
Love of one’s brother
The Apostle John wrote further in Chapter 3,
1John 3:17 But whoever has the world’s goods, and
sees his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the
love of God abide in him? 18 Little children, let us not love with word
or with tongue, but in deed and truth.[28]
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The love of God abides in the one who
helps his needy brother.
There is the story of the missionary who went to
South Africa to proclaim Christ to the people who lived there. He came
one day to the top of a hill from where he could look down on a farm. It
was a farm where lepers tended the fields, and he could see two of them
at work sowing peas. One of them had no hands; the other had no feet.
Leprosy had deprived them of the limbs that are so necessary for work.
Yet, in spite of these infirmities they labored. The one who had no
hands was carrying on his back the one who had no feet. The one who had
no feet carried a bag of seed from which he dropped a pea in measured
cadence which the other pressed into the ground with his foot. In this
way they managed the work of one man even though they were two.[29]
Such help and cooperation ought to be found among
all men and especially Christians. Love abides in the one who helps his
needy brother.
Jesus is the foremost example of self-sacrificing
love because he laid down His life so that all who believe in Him would
live.
In his
Legend of the Eagles George d’Espartes says that the most heroic
piece of self-sacrifice known to history occurred in the building of a
bridge. In the depths of winter the French army, pressed on all sides by
the Cossacks, had to cross a river. The enemy had destroyed all the
bridges and Napoleon was almost at his wit’s end. Suddenly came the
order that a bridge of some sort must be thrown across the river, and
the men nearest the water were the first to carry out the almost
impossible task. Several were swept away by the furious current. Others,
after a few minutes, sank through cold and exhaustion; but more came,
and the work proceeded as fast as possible.
At last the workers completed the bridge and the
army crossed to the opposite bank in safety. Then followed the most
dramatic scene, and one of the most touching, recorded in the annals of
history. When the men who had built the bridge were called to leave the
water, not one moved. Clinging to the pillars, they stood silent and
motionless, frozen to death.
Even Napoleon wept.[30]
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Love involves sacrifice.
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Love your brothers.
1 John 4:20 If someone says, “I love God,” and
hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his
brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. 21 And
this commandment we have from Him, that the one who loves God should
love his brother also.
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A person who hates his brother does not
love God.
There is a famous poster showing two young boys.
The older boy is pictured carrying the other on his back. When a man
remarks about the weight the first was carrying, the young man replied,
“He’s not heavy. He’s my brother.”
1 John 5:2 By this we know that we love the
children of God, when we love God and observe His commandments. 3 For
this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His
commandments are not burdensome.
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The test of whether we love God’s
children is when we love God and keep His commandments.
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The love of God consists in keeping His
commandments.
Lucian was an ancient satirist and rhetorician who
lived in about the years 120 AD to 200 AD. Upon observing the warm
fellowship of Christians he remarked, “It is incredible to see the
fervor with which the people of that religion help each other in their
wants. They spare nothing. Their first legislator (Jesus) has put it
into their heads that they are brethren.”[31]
Jesus said to His disciples,
John 13:34 “A new commandment I give to you, that
you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one
another. 35 “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you
have love for one another.”
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Mutual love among Christians is what
characterizes them and distinguishes them from the world.
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Christians act in the best interest of
their brethren; that is, they seek the greater good of their brothers.
Paul wrote,
Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes all
things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are
called according to His purpose.
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God extends His benevolent providence to
those who love Him.
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In this He expresses His love for those
who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
What “love” means
Repeating Vine’s comment, “Love can be known only
from the actions it prompts. God’s love is seen in the gift of His Son,
1 John 4:9, 10. But obviously this is not the love of complacency, or
affection, that is, it was not drawn out by any excellency in its
objects, Rom. 5:8. It was an exercise of the Divine will in deliberate
choice made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature
of God Himself; cp. Deut. 7:7,
8.[32]
The meaning of love as
agapao may be seen in the
contrast of behaviors as shown by God’s command in Leviticus,
Leviticus 19:18 ‘You shall not take vengeance,
nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love
your neighbor as yourself; I am the LORD.
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Love does not take vengeance.
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Love does not bear a grudge.
The Apostle Paul gave this meaning to love:
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind
and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not
act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not
take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in
unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
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Love is patient – despite difficulties.
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Love is kind – it provides something
beneficial as an act of kindness.
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Love rejoices with the truth – is happy
together with the truth.
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Love bears all things – it endures the
annoyances.
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Love believes all things – has complete
trust, or confidence, in all things.
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Love hopes all things – it looks forward
with confidence to that which is good and beneficial.
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Love endures all things – it bears up
despite difficulty and suffering.
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Love is not jealous – does not experience
envy and resentment against someone.
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Love does not brag – it does not praise
itself.
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Love is not arrogant – is not haughty or
puffed up.
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Love does not act unbecomingly – does not
act shamefully, indecently or disgracefully.
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Love does not seek its own - does not
demand something for itself. Love is unconditional.
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Love is not provoked – does not become
seriously emotionally stirred at someone or something.
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Love does not take into account a wrong
suffered – it does not keep a mental record for future action to be
taken because of an injury.
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Love does not rejoice in unrighteousness
– it is not happy with an unjust deed.
LOVE—is patient in doing good.
Years ago the asylums for the mentally ill were
crude, primitive, more jails than hospitals. One had a dungeon where
they put the most unmanageable, the most violent, the most hopeless.
Into this dungeon they put a little girl. The only thing they knew about
her was her name--Annie.
Sometimes, she would be violent and abusive. At
those times Annie would throw herself at the bars of her cage when
anyone approached. Then there were times when she would sit in stony
silence.
There was an elderly woman who worked at this
asylum, and she was approaching retirement, having spent many years in
caring for the mentally ill. She took her lunch one day and went down to
the dungeon. Near that cool and damp cage she found a seat and ate. She
offered some food to Annie, but Annie refused--protesting loudly.
The elderly woman had no success that day, nor the
next, nor for many days after, but in spite of the discouraging results
she persisted. She came every day to eat her lunch beside the little
animal-like girl, to receive her abuse, and to offer her some food. One
day she brought some brownies, and offered some of these to Annie. Annie
refused. So the woman left some of the brownies where Annie could reach
them--and the woman left. When she returned, the brownies were gone.
That was the beginning of a slow and agonizing
treatment for the mad little girl. Slowly, Annie regained her
faculties--through kind and loving care, until one day she stood before
the doctor's of the asylum fully recovered. They said to her, "You may
leave now, and go anywhere you wish."
She said, "I don't want to leave. I prefer to stay
where I have received the kindest treatment. I want to repay in kind
what I have received so generously myself."
Her name was Anne Sullivan. You might remember her
as the woman who patiently labored with Helen Keller so that the blind
and deaf Helen might learn to communicate with the world, and gain world
fame for her help of the handicapped. Helen Keller became a respected
author, and lecturer. She graduated from
Helen Keller was blind and deaf because of a
childhood disease, and because of her misfortune became violent and
abusive to anyone who was sent to care for her. Annie Sullivan had been
over that road before. She had suffered from eye trouble, and had
learned the manual alphabet at the Perkins Institute. She was uniquely
equipped to be a companion to Helen Keller.
Anne Sullivan married to become Anne Sullivan Macy.
Anne Sullivan received from Queen
·
“…and the greatest of these is love.”
·
And let us not forget the love of the
elderly woman who remains unnamed. It was she who began a story of love.
Love – when obedience is difficult
Jesus and his disciples observed the Passover meal
in an upper room in a home in southwest Jerusalem. Afterward, they
traveled to the Mount of Olives, northeast of the city.
Nearby, in the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus, apparently knowing
that the time of his death was near, suffered great mental anguish, and,
as described by the physician, Luke,
his sweat became like blood.
Matthew wrote,
26:37 And He took with Him Peter and the two sons
of Zebedee, and began to be grieved and distressed. 38 Then He said to
them, “My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and
keep watch with Me.” 39 And He went a little beyond them, and fell on
His face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup
pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will.”
The hour of His death was upon Him. And the
difficulty He faced we can see not only in the sweat that became like
blood, but in His anguished appeal to His Father. He had humbled Himself
and now He faced death for every man. As Paul wrote,
Philippians 2:5 Have this attitude in yourselves
which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, although He existed in the form
of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped,
7 but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and
being made in the likeness of men.
8 Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by
becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
9 For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on
Him the name which is above every name,
10 so that at the name of Jesus EVERY KNEE WILL BOW, of those who
are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and that every tongue
will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
He did this because He loves you.
[1] Michael P. Green, (1990
Illustrations for
Biblical Preaching, Baker Book House, Grand Rapids, p. 17.
[2] Edersheim, A.
(1896).
The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah (Vol. 1,
p. 630). New York: Longmans, Green, and Co. The Rabbis also
frequently have the expression ‘to sleep’ (demakh
דמך,
or דמוך,
when the sleep is overpowering and oppressive), instead of ‘to
die.
[3] Matthew 9:24.
[4] Kaiser Jr., W. C.
(2007).
How Has Archaeology Corroborated the Bible? In T.
Cabal, C. O. Brand, E. R. Clendenen, P. Copan, & J. P. Moreland
(Eds.), The Apologetics
Study Bible: Real Questions, Straight Answers, Stronger Faith
(p. 1171). Nashville, TN: Holman Bible Publishers. Permanent
sleep is merely a metaphor or euphemism for physical death (Ps
76:5). This verse does not teach about what happens after death;
that is taught in passages such as Is 66:24 and Heb 9:27.
[5] Achtemeier, P. J.,
Harper & Row and Society of Biblical Literature. (1985). In
Harper’s Bible dictionary (1st ed., p. 14). San
Francisco: Harper & Row.
[6] Romans 1:31; 2 Timothy
3:2-3.
[7] Liddell, H. G. (1996).
A lexicon: Abridged from
Liddell and Scott’s Greek-English lexicon (p. 865). Oak
Harbor, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.
φῐλό-στοργος,
ον, (στέργω)
loving tenderly,
affectionate, of the love of parents and children, brothers
and sisters. Romans 12:10.
[8] Joseph Henry Thayer, D.
D., Greek-English Lexicon
of the New Testament, Zondervan Publishing House, Grand
Rapids, 1962.
φῐλό-στοργος, p.
655.
[9] Robertson, A. T.
(1933).
Word Pictures in the New Testament (1 Th 1:3).
Nashville, TN: Broadman Press.
[10]New American Standard
Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Jn 15:12). La Habra, CA: The
Lockman Foundation.
[11] Ibid., Joseph Henry
Thayer, D.D.,
ἀγαπάω.
[12] Vine, W. E., &
Bruce, F. F. (1981).
Vine’s Expository dictionary of Old and New Testament words
(Vol. 2, p. 21). Old Tappan NJ: Revell.
[13] Louw, J. P., &
Nida, E. A. (1996).
Greek-English lexicon of the New Testament: based on semantic
domains (electronic ed. of the 2nd edition. Vol.
1, p. 293). New York: United Bible Societies.
φιλέω or
φιλία : to
have love or affection for someone based on association. Love as
affection is not commanded. Though some persons have tried to
assign certain significant differences of meaning between
ἀγαπάωa,
ἀγάπηa and
φιλέωa,
φιλία (25.33), it does not seem possible to insist upon a
contrast of meaning in any and all contexts. For example, the
usage in Jn 21:15–17 seems to reflect simply a rhetorical
alternation designed to avoid undue repetition. There is,
however, one significant clue to possible meaningful differences
in at least some contexts, namely, the fact that people are
never commanded to love one another with
φιλέω or
φιλία, but
only with ἀγαπάω
and ἀγάπη.
[14] Ibid., Louw, J. P.,
& Nida, E. A., Vol. 1, p. 320). New York: United Bible
Societies.
[15] Palmer, F. H.
(1996).
Love, Beloved. In D. R. W. Wood, I. H. Marshall, A.
R. Millard, J. I. Packer, & D. J. Wiseman (Eds.),
New Bible dictionary
(3rd ed., p. 701). Leicester, England; Downers Grove, IL:
InterVarsity Press.
[16] I have inserted
parenthetical phrases for readability. Author.
[17] Genesis 15.
[18] Palmer, F. H.
(1996).
Love, Beloved. In D. R. W. Wood, I. H. Marshall,
A. R. Millard, J. I. Packer, & D. J. Wiseman (Eds.),
New Bible dictionary
(3rd ed., p. 701). Leicester, England; Downers Grove, IL:
InterVarsity Press. “So closely related is God’s love for man
and man’s for God that it is often difficult to decide whether
the phrase ‘the love of God’ denotes a subjective or objective
genitive (e.g. Jn.
5:42).
[19] Tan, P. L. (1996).
Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations: Signs of the Times
(p. 1392). Garland, TX: Bible Communications, Inc.
[20]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forty_Martyrs_of_Sebaste.
[21] Ibid., Tan, P. L.
(1996). (p. 786).
[22] Matthew 10:32-33.
[23] Will Durant,
Caesar and Christ,
Simon and Schuster, New York, 1944. p. 332.
[24] Ibid., Will Durant, p.
332,
[25] The sestertius
(plural sestertii), or sesterce (plural
sesterces), was an
ancient Roman
coin. During the
Roman Republic it was a small,
silver coin issued only on rare occasions. During the
Roman Empire it was a large
brass coin. The name sestertius means "two and one
half", referring to its nominal value of two and a half
asses (a
bronze Roman coin, singular as), a value that was
useful for commerce because it was one quarter of a
denarius, a coin worth ten asses.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sestertius.
[26] F. R. Cowell,
Life in Ancient Rome,
A Perigee Book, 1980. p.p. 193-194.
[27] Jerome Carcopino,
Daily Life in Ancient
Rome, pp. 52-53.
[28] Ibid., Louw, J. P., &
Nida, E. A. (1996). Vol. 1, p. 293). New York: United Bible
Societies.
25.44
ἀγαπάωb:
to demonstrate or show one’s love—‘to show one’s love, to
demonstrate one’s love.’
μὴ ἀγαπῶμεν λόγῳ
μηδὲ τῇ γλώσσῃ ἀλλὰ ἐν ἔργῳ ‘let us show our love, but
not by just word and talk, but by means of action’ 1 Jn 3:18.
[29] Elon Foster, 6000 Sermon
Illustrations, p.428.
[30] Ibid., Tan, P. L.
(1996). (p. 1181). Garland, TX: Bible Communications, Inc.
[31] Michael P. Green, (1990
Illustrations for
Biblical Preaching, Baker Book House, Grand Rapids, p. 225.
[32] Ibid., Vine, W. E.,
& Bruce, F. F. (1981
(Vol. 2, p. 21).
[33] Source: Zig Ziegler, WNN
Radio, June 4, 1988. Et. al.